Break your new year resolutions! (Photo credit) |
Now that you have spent almost the whole first day of the year, I guess you realised that it was pretty much like every other day. I bet you did not even make it to the gym. What did you say...you'll start from tomorrow? Well, let me tell you that if you expect to hit the gym consistently thrice a week, stick to your diet all year, be well organised, give up negativity and become all positive - it is not going to happen as perfectly from today as you imagined. You aren't going to be the perfect version of yourself just because it's the new year. Why, you ask? The year changed, not us. And although we imagine that we are going to turn a new leaf all of a sudden, the goals we strive to achieve in the new year are going to be one step at a time.
We all want to be the best and every new year gives us a hope that we will be. While chasing perfection is an ongoing thing, I think the new year can be a great time to do so many exciting things - other than, of course, worry about how imperfect we are. Some of the things I can think of are:
Start with a brand new DP on all your profiles
Try a new hairstyle
Change the way you dress for something you haven't tried before
Combine the clothes you have in a different way
Workout with new people
Try heels if you wear flats
Get adventurous and travel alone
Say hello to the guy you see working in the cafe all the time (I did)
The year changed overnight. We didn't. We won't. So don't bend yourself out of shape hoping you'll wake up tomorrow in an ideal state through the magic of the new year. Pick your goals wisely and work on them gradually.
So what are your new year goals? Resolutions break, so why make them!
You are absolutely right on this, Suman! It's just the year that changes and not the person. The resolutions need to be worked on and implemented over a period of time. :) That is how I look at them (though I have not kept any resolutions for many years now). Love your suggestions mentioned above. My personal favorite is say hello to the guy who you see working in the cafe. I do that every single time and in fact, wished them all a happy new year when I met them on the 1st of Jan... Nothing big but brought a big smile on their face... :) aah... the small pleasures of life... Thanks for writing this post and sharing your views...
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